Rad iznosi činjenično stanje pošasti rastava i razvoda u Hrvatskoj te na temelju razgovora koji su objavljeni u autorovoj studiji o tim procesima na poseban način obrađuje utjecaj istih na supružnike i na poseban način na djecu iz takvih slomljenih brakova i obitelji. Donose se i istraživanja o prenošenju kulture rastave i razvoda na sljedeće generacije. Rad se zajedno s Amoris laetitia pita što činiti i traži od zajednice da pomogne tom silnom broju traumatiziranih, i to procesima opraštanja i pomirenja, kao i integracijom u zajednice te velikom solidarnošću da im budu blizu i od pomoći. Naravno, tu su na raspolaganju i crkvene stručne pravne službe s kojima treba provesti analizu o bračnoj i obiteljskoj situaciji i što crkveno zakonodavstvo preporučuje. U svim tim procesima, koji su često dugotrajni, preostaje im vjernička bliskost i solidarnost.; The paper presents the factual situation of the scourge of separation and divorce in Croatia and, based on the interviews published in a study on these processes, deals in a special way with their impact on the spouses and especially the children from such broken marriages and families. There is also research on the transmission of the culture of separation and divorce to the next generations. Together with Amoris laetitia, the paper discusses what to do and asks the community to help this huge number of traumatized people through the processes of forgiveness and reconciliation, as well as their integration into communities and to be close to them and helpful with great solidarity. Of course, available are also the Church’s professional legal services with which an analysis should be conducted of the marital and family situations and see what the Church legislation recommends. In all these processes, which are often lengthy, they are supported by religious closeness and solidarity of the faithful.